My fiance gets mad at me when I tell her I want to die young rather than growing old?
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Im am 24 yrs old and i truly believe that half of my life is gone.I can’t explain why but it’s just a gut feeling that I have.somehow I feel comfortable dying around the age 45-50.I want it to be like that,but when i explain this to my fiance she get upset and yells at me.
Im am 24 yrs old and i truly believe that half of my life is gone.I can’t explain why but it’s just a gut feeling that I have.somehow I feel comfortable dying around the age 45-50.I want it to be like that,but when i explain this to my fiance she get upset and yells at me.
Sometime god give us a feel awhile in advance to ajust our lives for the better.I really feel like he is telling me this.
why does she feel she have to get upset?
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April 17th, 2011 at 4:58 pm
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my first love always said he knew he was going to die young and he did at the age of 20.
it is better to love and LOST than to have never loved at all
my husband now says he know he is going to die young he says at like age of 50
i don’t get mad when he says it. it just reiterates the fact that every moment I share with him is precious and should not be taken for granted.
April 18th, 2011 at 10:19 pm
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Because she feels you are somewhat unstable.
April 21st, 2011 at 3:06 pm
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It’s probably cause she loves you and doesn’t want to think about you dying. If you aren’t terminally ill or on the verge of death you should really stop being an a**hole and bringing it up with her. Anyone who loves you doesn’t want to hear that shit.
April 21st, 2011 at 7:07 pm
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So, you’re punishing your fiancee for loving you and not wanting to loose you and you’re looking for justification here because?
April 25th, 2011 at 6:05 am
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Ok, the feeling that God is giving you advanced warning is just that, a feeling. Your fiance is upset because she loves you and wants to grow old with you. When you talk about dying young you are effectively saying she will live out the remainder of her life alone. Without trying to offend you need to seek professional help. Speak to a therapist and see if this stems from some other part of your subconscious.
April 28th, 2011 at 1:07 am
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um because she loves you and doesnt want you to die? duh
April 30th, 2011 at 1:24 pm
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i used to feel that way when i was young. that i’d never see the ripe ole age of 20! but look at me now! almost 40!
damn….now i feel really old. thanks for the downer
May 3rd, 2011 at 3:48 pm
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because you sound like you should probably visit a shrink. I am a nurse and I know that getting old is not fun. However, I have seen plenty of people die very young. I have watched old people on their death beds say that life wasn’t long enough. It is a blessing to be allowed to live long enough to get old because even then it is too soon.
May 4th, 2011 at 6:43 pm
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You’re and idiot! Seriously, grow the#$ up and start acting like a REAL MAN by taking into consideration your fiance’s needs. She loves you, which is why she’s marrying you. Therefore, she wants to spend the rest of her life with you. She’s not marrying you only to become a widow at 45. My question is, why would you do that to her if you really love her?! Do you think it makes her feel good to hear how the man she loves is going to die, or are you just that naive? If I could tell her one thing it’s this, RUN! In most probability, she won’t stick around much longer if you keep up the bullsh!@. Grow up.
May 6th, 2011 at 6:03 am
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If you truelly believe in God when you say you believe God is telling you this then you should keep it between you should know that God would want you to live for Him and stop focusing on death. God is about life and living for Him and not yourself. If you focus on death all the time then you will never truelly live. Your just a empty shell walking this earth. And who wants to marry someone who is empty and not full of life. This is probably why she is getting mad.